This is an Emily classic. Tonight we were working through the bedtime routine: bath, books, songs, bed. Well, Emily was having a hard time choosing her books. First she chose some of her Corduroy books. Then she changed her mind and wanted different books. Daddy had to put his foot down and make her choose. She got very whiny. In fact she whined all the way through the first book. Again Daddy was firm with her and asked her what was wrong. The rest you just have to picture. Daddy stood her up on the little bench so she could look him in the eyes and then the following was the dialoge:
Daddy: Emily what's wrong?
Emily: I'm upset with you.
Daddy: Why are you upset with me?
Emily: You made me cry.
Daddy: What did Daddy to do to make you cry?
Emily: You were stern with me.
(Mommy quietly laughing in the background.)
Daddy: You need to use your big girl voice and talk to Daddy.
Emily: (louder with conviction): I'm upset with you Daddy!!
Daddy went on to explain that Emily needed to be a better listener when it was time to choose books. Daddy promised in exchange that he would listen to Emily when she used her big girl voice. All was forgiven and Daddy was permitted to read books. He also got hugs. Mommy is claiming to have acheived favored parent status. Daddy objects. His objections are noted for the record...and are overruled.
